Archive for the ‘Negotiation’ Category

Follow-up to Last Post: Here’s The 7th Reason People Ask You Questions (You Tell Me: Is This Manipulation?)…

Monday, July 5th, 2010

I just returned from a speaking appearance on the East Coast, and I made a point to my audience that dovetails nicely with what I’m about to tell you in this post.  The underlying principle that makes the 7th Reason People Ask You Questions so powerful is this, and it’s what I told the folks attending my event:  “People want to believe themselves, not you.  If you want to influence another person, allow them to (more…)

How to Negotiate Email with Clarity, Cleverness, and Insight—5 Simple Tips…

Sunday, August 9th, 2009

lolHow many emails do you get in a day?  How many do you send? 

How many people do you communicate with almost exclusively by email?

Email is no longer a novelty, it’s the conduit for some of your most important “conversations”.  How well you writeand reademail means everything to the results you get.

I recently got a note from a reader who asked me for tips about negotiating via email.  It’s an interesting subjectand one that’s not talked about much, either. 

So here they are, 5 easy tips for better negotiationand more effective communication generallyvia email…

1-Are you negotiating, persuading… or selling?   Be honest with yourself about the purpose (more…)