Comments on: Follow-up to Last Post: Here’s The 7th Reason People Ask You Questions (You Tell Me: Is This Manipulation?)… http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2010/07/05/the-7th-reason-people-ask-you-questions-is-this-manipulation/ Been lied to lately? Or could you tell--how to master deception, lying, and conversation... Mon, 06 Feb 2012 10:03:09 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Motorcycle guy http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2010/07/05/the-7th-reason-people-ask-you-questions-is-this-manipulation/comment-page-1/#comment-398 Motorcycle guy Sat, 13 Nov 2010 17:15:30 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=2165#comment-398 Amazing post thanks! Sent from my Android phone Amazing post thanks!

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]]> By: Jef http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2010/07/05/the-7th-reason-people-ask-you-questions-is-this-manipulation/comment-page-1/#comment-342 Jef Sat, 17 Jul 2010 21:26:58 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=2165#comment-342 You're among the few out there who understands the value of asking questions and how to make good use of them... You're asking out of sincerity, too, which people can see, and they surely appreciate. For those of you who don't know Chuc, he's a master speaker and THE time management guru (stellar blogger, too!) Go see his stuff at http://chucbarneschimesin.wordpress.com/ Thanks Chuc! You’re among the few out there who understands the value of asking questions and how to make good use of them… You’re asking out of sincerity, too, which people can see, and they surely appreciate.

For those of you who don’t know Chuc, he’s a master speaker and THE time management guru (stellar blogger, too!) Go see his stuff at http://chucbarneschimesin.wordpress.com/

Thanks Chuc!

]]> By: Chuc Barnes http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2010/07/05/the-7th-reason-people-ask-you-questions-is-this-manipulation/comment-page-1/#comment-341 Chuc Barnes Sat, 17 Jul 2010 16:30:41 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=2165#comment-341 You're right about sales people doing exactly what you're saying. In fact, a lot of sales courses teach questioning (the same as you've described) for the same things you're talking about. My personal reason for asking questions (and I ask a lot) is to learn about the other person (where they're from, what they do, why they do it) primarily to learn what we might have in common. I love finding people who know people I know and/or have had experiences I've enjoyed, or even had experiences we didn't enjoy. I like the feeling of simpatico with the other person. You’re right about sales people doing exactly what you’re saying. In fact, a lot of sales courses teach questioning (the same as you’ve described) for the same things you’re talking about. My personal reason for asking questions (and I ask a lot) is to learn about the other person (where they’re from, what they do, why they do it) primarily to learn what we might have in common. I love finding people who know people I know and/or have had experiences I’ve enjoyed, or even had experiences we didn’t enjoy. I like the feeling of simpatico with the other person.

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