Comments on: Bad Brakes, Too Much Gas, and the Little Rascals—a Quick Lesson on Deception Through Twisting Perception… http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2010/03/25/bad-brakes-too-much-gas-and-the-little-rascals%e2%80%94a-quick-lesson-on-deception-through-twisting-perception/ Been lied to lately? Or could you tell--how to master deception, lying, and conversation... Mon, 06 Feb 2012 10:17:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Jef http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2010/03/25/bad-brakes-too-much-gas-and-the-little-rascals%e2%80%94a-quick-lesson-on-deception-through-twisting-perception/comment-page-1/#comment-283 Jef Sat, 27 Mar 2010 15:25:51 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=1924#comment-283 Jeannie, well said... I like that you drew a correlation to negotiation, never thought of that but you're right on! Self-preservation... HUGE motivator in everything. Thanks for your thoughts Jeannie! -j Jeannie, well said… I like that you drew a correlation to negotiation, never thought of that but you’re right on! Self-preservation… HUGE motivator in everything. Thanks for your thoughts Jeannie!

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]]> By: ***Jeannie http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2010/03/25/bad-brakes-too-much-gas-and-the-little-rascals%e2%80%94a-quick-lesson-on-deception-through-twisting-perception/comment-page-1/#comment-281 ***Jeannie Sat, 27 Mar 2010 03:13:29 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=1924#comment-281 We deceive ourselves because of self preservation. We deceive others for self preservation too. The reason why I got hooked with 'Deception Secrets' is that I just want to live in the real world, see things as they are, be real and really live. Why? Self preservation. Jef, you asked 'Is a little strange that two opposites could be contained in the same thing? ' What a great insight. You just gave me a strategy here. Whenever we find ourselves in conflict with someone, or when we are in some kind of negotiation, we can always ask the question, what is the common objective or desired result in this situation? Many people get stuck in the struggle, they get stuck in competing with others, focusing on winning, and proving themselves right, instead of focusing on the the real issue or objective. When we are able to identify this, the struggle will end. Am I making sense? Maybe you can complete my thought.. Thanks Jef, keep on posting. ***Jeannie We deceive ourselves because of self preservation. We deceive others for self preservation too.

The reason why I got hooked with ‘Deception Secrets’ is that I just want to live in the real world, see things as they are, be real and really live. Why? Self preservation.

Jef, you asked ‘Is a little strange that two opposites could be contained in the same thing? ‘ What a great insight. You just gave me a strategy here. Whenever we find ourselves in conflict with someone, or when we are in some kind of negotiation, we can always ask the question, what is the common objective or desired result in this situation? Many people get stuck in the struggle, they get stuck in competing with others, focusing on winning, and proving themselves right, instead of focusing on the the real issue or objective. When we are able to identify this, the struggle will end. Am I making sense? Maybe you can complete my thought..

Thanks Jef, keep on posting.

***Jeannie

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