Comments on: What Do You Want, and What are You Doing to Get It? (Quick Lesson from a Resolute Spider…) http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2009/08/18/what-do-you-want-and-what-are-you-doing-to-get-it-quick-lesson-from-a-resolute-spider/ Been lied to lately? Or could you tell--how to master deception, lying, and conversation... Mon, 06 Feb 2012 10:08:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: ***jeannie*** http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2009/08/18/what-do-you-want-and-what-are-you-doing-to-get-it-quick-lesson-from-a-resolute-spider/comment-page-1/#comment-222 ***jeannie*** Sat, 31 Oct 2009 15:24:48 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=1433#comment-222 crack spider! http://www.break.com/usercontent/2007/1/wood-spider-on-drugs-210815.html crack spider!
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]]> By: Jef http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2009/08/18/what-do-you-want-and-what-are-you-doing-to-get-it-quick-lesson-from-a-resolute-spider/comment-page-1/#comment-194 Jef Wed, 19 Aug 2009 20:35:08 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=1433#comment-194 Outdoor spiders always get a break. They're bigger, jucier, a lot of times much gnarlier (sp?) looking than ANY indoor spider... but they generally get to live... But when we see a spider inside? He gets the houseshoe. And outside spiders are the only ones referred to as 'she'. Think <em>Charlotte's Web</em>. Inside spiders are always male: "There he is, there he is, get him!" Should we all try to be better than a spider? Or maybe as good? They've got some admirable traits. That said, I've never liked 'em much, prefer snakes myself. But you're right, Jeannie, I won't kill her--but if I find any of her cousins inside they're going down. What I really want to do is watch her build the web start to finish some evening. Big glass of tea needed for that one. -j Outdoor spiders always get a break. They’re bigger, jucier, a lot of times much gnarlier (sp?) looking than ANY indoor
spider… but they generally get to live… But when we see a spider inside? He gets the houseshoe.

And outside spiders are the only ones referred to as ’she’. Think Charlotte’s Web. Inside spiders are
always male: “There he is, there he is, get him!”

Should we all try to be better than a spider? Or maybe as good? They’ve got some admirable traits.

That said, I’ve never liked ‘em much, prefer snakes myself. But you’re right, Jeannie, I won’t kill her–but if I find
any of her cousins inside they’re going down. What I really want to do is watch her build the web start to
finish some evening. Big glass of tea needed for that one.

-j

]]> By: ***jeannie*** http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2009/08/18/what-do-you-want-and-what-are-you-doing-to-get-it-quick-lesson-from-a-resolute-spider/comment-page-1/#comment-191 ***jeannie*** Wed, 19 Aug 2009 18:16:08 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=1433#comment-191 Okay, okay, okay, I get it.... You just kicked my b*t* I must say you have a great camera... and being out there with nature really is good for everybody because it keeps us 'connected' or maybe- keeps our mind and soul intact. I used to blog outside, on the deck. I used to garden. Used to... Thank you for posting. I have to be better than a spider, right? So anyway are you going to kill the spider? Okay let me answer that. You won't... it's not indoors. So i have another thought. We all spin our own webs. ***Jeannie Okay, okay, okay, I get it…. You just kicked my b*t*
I must say you have a great camera… and being out there with nature really is good for everybody because it keeps us ‘connected’ or maybe- keeps our mind and soul intact. I used to blog outside, on the deck. I used to garden. Used to…

Thank you for posting. I have to be better than a spider, right?

So anyway are you going to kill the spider? Okay let me answer that. You won’t… it’s not indoors.

So i have another thought. We all spin our own webs.

***Jeannie

]]> By: Jef http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2009/08/18/what-do-you-want-and-what-are-you-doing-to-get-it-quick-lesson-from-a-resolute-spider/comment-page-1/#comment-190 Jef Wed, 19 Aug 2009 14:21:22 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=1433#comment-190 spider webs: awesome to look at, awful to wear. how you find 'em determines what the experience is gonna be. the web was gone the next morning... then back up again the next night. same time, same place. 'correct what didn't work and attempt again' -- think tom edison, the wright bros, and al einstein. Good stuff, thanks A! -jef spider webs: awesome to look at, awful to wear. how you find ‘em determines what the experience is gonna be.

the web was gone the next morning… then back up again the next night. same time, same place.

‘correct what didn’t work and attempt again’ — think tom edison, the wright bros, and al einstein.

Good stuff, thanks A!

-jef

]]> By: Anomoly http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/2009/08/18/what-do-you-want-and-what-are-you-doing-to-get-it-quick-lesson-from-a-resolute-spider/comment-page-1/#comment-189 Anomoly Wed, 19 Aug 2009 06:50:43 +0000 http://www.deceptionsecrets.com/?p=1433#comment-189 very interesting post. I've often found spiders in the same way, it can be frustrating although you're right in thinking about how frustrating it is for the little guys/gals. While i will admit i've considered killing them, if they are in a place where they are not bothering me.. i let them do what they need to do. if not i try to catch and release. Being able to see a large web stretched out in just the right light (or perhaps in the early morning with a little bit of dew)... is a true thing of beauty. As far as success i've always said that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. It's hard to correct mistakes that you have never made. The only way to hit the goal is to attempt to reach it... correct what didn't work, and attempt again. although it DID sound like the spider was either: 1.expecting you not to walk the same path on the way back. or 2. really trying to trap you! Great post very interesting post. I’ve often found spiders in the same way, it can be frustrating although you’re right in thinking about how frustrating it is for the little guys/gals. While i will admit i’ve considered killing them, if they are in a place where they are not bothering me.. i let them do what they need to do. if not i try to catch and release.

Being able to see a large web stretched out in just the right light (or perhaps in the early morning with a little bit of dew)… is a true thing of beauty.

As far as success i’ve always said that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

It’s hard to correct mistakes that you have never made. The only way to hit the goal is to attempt to reach it… correct what didn’t work, and attempt again.

although it DID sound like the spider was either: 1.expecting you not to walk the same path on the way back. or 2. really trying to trap you!

Great post

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